Skip to content
  • About
  • Resources
  • Blog
  • Seminars
  • Store
  • Giving
  • Contact

Helping parents, youth workers, educators, pastors and others understand and reach today's youth culture

  • Home
  • >
  • Resources
  • >
  • Constructive Offline Conversations

Constructive Offline Conversations

July 26, 2022

Last May, the day after the horrific school shooting took place in Uvalde, Texas, social media lit up with a back and forth that shows just how divided we are as a nation. I got to thinking about the best place to respond, as we must, to the tragedies that take place in our world. I truly believe that the evil in our world which rattles us to the core must be discussed and acted upon. The Gospel demands it. But it’s wise to choose where we discuss how we should act and respond. The great temptation is always to jump online to social media and to engage in what’s called virtue signaling and performative allyship. All too often, conversations that should be had one-on-one and face-to-face are taking place through sound bytes thrown around online. Alan Jacobs once wrote, The internet is a mugger that demands an immediate response. We need to show personal restraint while teaching our kids that the most constructive conversations in difficult times will take place off line.

Related

  • About
    • A Message from President Walt Mueller
    • Meet The Staff
    • Board of Directors
  • Resources
    • Resources during Coronavirus Pandemic
    • Family TableTalk
    • Research and News
    • Youth Culture Today Radio Show
    • Youth Culture Matters: A CPYU Podcast
    • The Word in Youth Ministry Podcast
    • Helpful Handouts
    • Trend Alert
    • Top 10 Lists
    • 3(D) Media Reviews
    • New Music/Movie Releases
    • Media Spotlight
    • Youth Culture Hot Quotes
    • e-Update Archive
    • Articles from the Archives
    • Tools for Leaders
    • CPYU on the Web
    • CPYU Parent Page
    • Family TableTalk – Korean Language Versions
    • Spanish Resources
    • COVID-19 Related Resources
  • Blog
  • Seminars
    • Virtual Parent Seminars
    • Seminar Speakers
    • Seminar Costs
    • Seminar Request Form
    • Event Calendar
  • Store
  • Giving
  • Contact

Types

  • Audio
  • Document
  • Link
  • List
  • Quote
  • Text
  • Video

Topics

  • Abortion
  • Academic Pressure
  • Academics
  • Acceptance
  • Accountability
  • Adolescent Development
    • Puberty
    • The Teen Brain
  • Adoption
  • Affairs
  • Age Aspiration
  • Age Compression
  • Altruism
  • Anxiety
  • Apologetics
  • Athletics
  • Authority
  • Behavior Problems
  • Bible
  • Body Image Pressure
  • Body Modifcation
  • Boys
  • Brokenness
  • Bullying
  • Calling
  • Camp
  • Cancel Culture
  • Celebrity
  • Chores
  • Christian Living
  • Christmas
  • Coaches
  • Cohabitation
  • College
    • Gap Year
  • Communication
  • Concussions
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Contraception
  • Coronavirus
  • Cosmetic Surgery
  • Counseling
  • Creativity
  • Crime
  • Critical Race Theory
  • Cross-Cultural Missions
  • Cultural Discernment
  • Cutting
  • Dating
  • Dating Violence
  • Death and Loss
  • Deconstructing
  • Deconstruction
  • Democracy
  • Depression
  • Digital Kids
    • Anonymity
    • Apex Legends
    • Apps
    • Artificial Intelligence
    • Augmented Reality
    • Blue Light
    • Cell Phones
    • ChatGPT
    • Cyberbullying
    • Digital Distraction
    • Digital Footprint
    • Digital Privacy
    • Digital Screens
    • Discord
    • Electronic Addiction
    • Emojis
    • Esports
    • Facebook
    • Fortnite
    • Fraud
    • Google
    • Hacking
    • Influencers
    • Instagram
    • Internet of Things
    • Kik
    • Memes
    • Meta
    • Metaverse
    • Mobile
    • Netflix
    • NFTs
    • Online Comparison
    • Online Gambling
    • Online Learning
    • Online Safety
    • Online Shopping
    • Podcasts
    • Selfies
    • Sexting
    • Sharenting
    • Smart Speakers
    • Smartphones
    • Snapchat
    • Social Media
    • Social Networking
    • Streaming Video
    • Tablets
    • Texting
    • TikTok
    • Tinder
    • Tumblr
    • Twitch
    • Twitter
    • Unplug
    • Video Games
    • Vine
    • Viral Trends
    • Virtual Reality
    • Wearables
    • Web Filters
    • YouTube
    • Zoom
  • Digital Self-Harm
  • Disabilities
  • Discipleship
  • Distracted Driving
  • Diversity
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Abuse
  • Doubt
  • Driving
  • Drunk Driving
  • Eating Disorders
  • Education
  • Emotional Abuse
  • Emotions
  • Empathy
  • Employment/Work
  • Energy Drinks
  • Entitlement
  • Ethics
    • Character
    • Cheating
    • Lying
    • Morals
  • Evangelism
  • Exercise
  • Expressive Individualism
  • Extended Adolescence
  • Extracurricular Activities
  • Failure/Consequences
  • Faith
  • Faith and Culture
  • Fake News
  • Families
  • Fashion
  • Fathers
  • Fentanyl
  • Finances
  • FOMO
  • Food
  • Forgiveness
  • Foster Care
  • Free Speech
  • Friends
  • Gambling
  • Gender
  • General Youth Culture
  • Generation Alpha
  • Generation Z
  • Generational Gap
  • Girls
  • Giving/Tithing
  • Google
  • Grace
  • Graduation
  • Grandparents
  • Guns
  • Hazing
  • Health
  • Heaven/Hell
  • Homelessness
  • Hookup Culture
  • Hope
  • Human Trafficking
  • Humility
  • Hurting Kids
  • Identity
  • Idolatry
  • Injuries
  • Insecurity
  • Integrity
  • Intergenerational Ministry
  • Internet
    • Internet Of Things
  • Joy
  • Justice
  • Language/Slang
  • Leadership
  • LGBT Issues
  • Libraries
  • Life Expectancy
  • Listening
  • Loneliness
  • Love
  • Marketing
  • Marriage
  • Materialism
  • Media
    • Books
    • Comics
    • Magazines
    • Movies
    • Music
    • Music Videos
    • News
    • Radio
    • Television
    • Video
    • Video Games
  • Media Discernment
  • Mental Health
  • Military
  • Millennials
  • Missions
  • modeling
  • Modesty
  • Moral Relativism
  • Mothers
  • Multiculturalism
  • Multitasking
  • Narcissism
  • Obesity
  • Objectification
  • Outdoors/Play
  • Parenting
  • Partying
  • Pastors
  • Peer Pressure
  • Persecution
  • Physical Activity/Exercise
  • Plastic Surgery
  • Play
  • Politics
  • Polyamory
  • Popularity
  • Pornography
  • Poverty
  • Prayer
  • Pregnancy
  • Pressure
  • Pride
  • Prison/Delinquincy
  • Privacy
  • Prodigals
  • Progressive Christianity
  • Prom
  • Prostitution
  • Providence
  • Puberty
  • Race
  • Racism
  • Rape/Sexual Abuse
  • Reading
  • Rebellion
  • Redemption
  • Relationships
  • Relativism
  • Resiliency
  • Revenge Porn
  • Risky Behavior
  • Sabbath
  • Sadfishing
  • School Shootings
  • Schools
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Harm
  • Self-Poisoning
  • Service
  • Sex Ed
  • Sex Trafficking
  • Sextortion
  • Sexual Consent
  • Sexual Exploitation
  • Sexual Harassment
  • Sexual Integrity Initiative
  • Sexuality
  • Shame
  • Shoplifting
  • Shopping
  • Sin
  • Sleep
  • Slowing Down
  • Spanish Language
  • Spiritual Formation
  • Spirituality
  • Sports
  • Spring Break
  • STDs
  • Stealing
  • Stewardship
  • Stress
  • Subcultures
  • Substance Abuse
    • Alcohol
    • Drinking
    • Drug Abuse
    • E-Cigarettes
    • Marijuana
    • Opioids
    • Prescription Drugs
    • Smoking
    • Steroids
    • Vaping
  • Success
  • Suffering
  • Suicide
  • Summer Break
  • Summer Camp
  • Systemic Abandonment
  • Tablets
  • Tanning
  • Tattoos
  • Teachers
  • Technology
  • Teen Employment
  • Teen Pregnancy
  • Teen Spending
  • Terrorism
  • Texting While Driving
  • Thankfulness
  • The Arts
  • The Bible
  • The Church
  • The Future
  • The Occult
  • Theology
  • Toys
  • Tragedy
  • Transgender Issues
  • Trauma
  • Trends
  • Truth
  • Tweens
  • Vaping
  • Violence
  • Vocation
  • Webinar
  • Wisdom
  • Wokeness
  • Words/Speech
  • Work
  • Worldview
  • Worship
  • Young Adults
  • Youth Ministry
  • Youthfulness

Upcoming Events

Events will show here
Apr 22
9:00 am - 3:00 pm

Bozeman, MT: – Understanding Today’s Youth Culture

May 3
3:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Toronto, Canada: Tech-Smart Parenting

Jul 4
July 4 @ 8:00 am - July 7 @ 5:00 pm

Estes Park, CO: – Presentations on Today’s Youth Culture and Social Media

View Calendar

e-Update Signup

Sign up for a FREE weekly e-mail for the latest youth culture news, research, trends and more.

Stay Connected

Center for Parent/Youth Understanding
PO Box 414
Elizabethtown, PA 17022
(717) 361-8429

©2023 Center for Parent/Youth Understanding. All Rights Reserved.