Sexual Assault, Abuse, and Molestation In The News. . . Framing The Conversation. . .
For the last few days, the social media splash of the moment has been all about sexual assault and molestation. Triggered by revelations of a media icon’s heretofore hidden history of horribly destructive and damaging behavior, everyone is talking about…
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Some Thoughts on Parents, Kids, and Youth Sports Craziness. . .
The other day I posted a link to a great article by ESPN’s Tim Keown on the cultural insanity that we call youth sports. It’s a great piece titled “Where the ‘elite’ kids shouldn’t meet.” While pondering Keown’s analysis, I thought…
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Adolescent Realities. . . A Gut-Wrenching Poetic Peek Into Life In Today’s World. . . .
There’s very little that’s been written by generational theorists that sits well with me. The theorists I’ve read over the years typically function in a prophetic mode. They look ahead and speculate on the shape the next emerging generation will…
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Mad Men And Our Lives. . . .
Was it the best? For me, it certainly ranks up there on my list of TV favorites and is probably at the top of my list. I’m still trying to figure that out. But whether it ranks at #1 or…
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Graduation Speech, 2015 . . . .
Welcome to the inside of my head. There’s something that happens in there every year about this time. It began happening some twenty years ago when I found myself listening to a variety of college commencement speeches. I found myself…
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Character. . . What Is It? . . . And How Do We Get There? . . .
Back in the early days of CPYU, I was doing a lot of reading in the area of what was being called “Character Education.” At the time, a growing number of educators and cultural analysts were decrying the decline of…
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Human Purpose, Sexuality, and Identity. . .
Parents and youth workers. . . here’s another voice worth listening to in the midst of all the chatter around issues of sexuality and gender in youth culture today. Take 10 minutes and listen to Dale Kuehne in this short…
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Family Ministry. . . What A Blessing! . . . What A Need! . . .
Thirty years ago this week God led me into a conversation that changed the trajectory of my life and ministry. I was finishing up my time on campus at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. I was sitting quietly outside a faculty office…
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What Rules My Life? . . . A Homosexual Ponders Desire. . .
The battle rages every day for me. I am a broken person. Consequently, my desires, wishes, and wants are marred. Quite often they move in the wrong direction and they need to be reigned in. I cannot deny it. I…
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Should We Be Surprised? . . . We’ve Set The Table For Spring Break Gang Rape. . .
If you track with the news, you’ve probably been seeing some of the many reports coming out of Panama City Beach, Florida about Spring Breakers gone wild. The latest is that a third young man has been arrested in the…
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Death by iPhone. . . . Sort Of. . .
OK. . . that was a dirty little trick, wasn’t it? But now that I have your attention, let’s talk about technology and what it does to us. Better yet, let’s ponder Gillian Share-Raab’s out-of-the-box thoughts on what her smartphone…
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Kids, Marijuana, and Reasoning Through the Dangers. . . .
I’m guessing we’ve all had these conversations with at least one young somebody. And reasoning with a teenager through the dangers associated with. . . well, it can be a host of things in today’s world. . . is only…
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